Questions, answered
Is there a dating app where women make the first move, other than Bumble?
The short answer
Yes. In the Confident Women MOOD on MOOD Social & Dating, only women can send the first Offer.
Free to join · 18+ · iPhone and Android
How Confident Women works
Women go firstOnly women can send the first Offer in this MOOD.
A plan, not “hey”The first move is a real plan, like “Drinks Friday?”
Clear answersHe accepts, sends a Counter, or passes. No waiting and wondering.
Everyone chose itEveryone you see picked Confident Women too.
Three steps
- Pick Confident Women
It's in the Romantic group in the MOOD picker.
- See who's nearby
Everyone in the MOOD near you, closest first.
- Women send the Offer
He accepts, counters or passes.
MOODs to start with
Not the only way to do it
Bumble is known for letting women message first. Confident Women is different: the first move is a real plan, inside a MOOD everyone chose on purpose.
More answers
Can men join Confident Women?
Yes. Men can be in the MOOD, but only women can send the first Offer.
What is an Offer?
A real plan you send as your first move. The other person accepts, sends a Counter, or passes.
Is it free?
Yes, MOOD Social & Dating is free to join and use. Some optional extras are paid, through the App Store or Google Play.
Checked against the app on November 1, 2026.